Mindfulness For Dummies

Author: Shamash Alidina  

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc‎

Publication year: 2014

E-ISBN: 9781118868201

P-ISBN(Paperback): 9781118868188

P-ISBN(Hardback):  9781118868188

Subject: B848.4 信念、意志、行为

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Language: ENG

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Use mindfulness to relax and control anxiety, depression, stress and pain

Whether you're looking to control your depression and anxiety levels, improve concentration and reduce stress, or just want to restore balance in your life, Mindfulness For Dummies, 2nd Edition shows you how to slow down, become aware of what is going on around you and react effectively. Focusing on breathing and other self-control techniques, the practice of mindfulness is scientifically proven to calm jittery nerves and free the mind of distracting thoughts, mental clutter and unrealistic expectations.

With this easy-to-follow guide, you'll discover how to pay attention to the present in order to change the way you think, feel and act. Covering the latest research on the effect of mindfulness on the brain, Mindfulness For Dummies, 2nd Edition shows you how to break free from a downward spiral of negative thought and action, and empowers you to make positive choices that support your well-being.

  • Use mindfulness to reduce stress and anxiety, combat pain and more
  • Receive guidance on incorporating mindfulness into everyday life
  • Establish your own mindfulness routine
  • Access audio downloads of guided meditations

Written by a professional mindfulness trainer, and packed with tips to incorporate this practice into your daily life, Mindfulness For Dummies, 2nd Edition shows you how to reap the benefits of a more attentive life.

Chapter

Starting the Mindfulness Adventure

Beginning the voyage

Overcoming challenges

Exploring the journey of a lifetime

Chapter 2: Enjoying the Benefits of Mindfulness

Relaxing the Body

Getting back in touch

Boosting your immune system

Reducing pain

Slowing down the ageing process

Calming the Mind

Listening to your thoughts

Making better decisions

Coming to your senses

Creating an attentive mind

Soothing Your Emotions

Understanding your emotions

Managing feelings differently

Knowing thyself: Discovering your Observer Self

Part II: Preparing the Ground for Mindful Living

Chapter 3: Nurturing Your Motivation

Exploring Your Intentions

Clarifying intention in mindfulness

Finding what you’re looking for

Developing a vision

Practising mindfulness for everyone’s benefit

Preparing Yourself for Mindfulness

Looking Beyond Problem-Solving

Honing Your Commitment

Mastering self-discipline

Making a commitment that’s right for you

Inspiring yourself with extra motivation

Dealing with resistance to practice

Chapter 4: Growing Healthy Attitudes

Knowing How Attitude Affects Outcome

Discovering Your Attitudes to Mindfulness

Developing Helpful Attitudes

Understanding acceptance

Discovering patience

Seeing afresh

Finding trust

Cultivating curiosity

Letting go

Developing kindness

Appreciating ‘Heartfulness’

Understanding mindfulness as heartfulness

Developing an Attitude of Gratitude

Letting go through forgiveness

Tackling Unhelpful Attitudes

Avoiding quick-fix solutions

Overcoming perfectionism

Finding out from failure

Chapter 5: Humans Being Versus Humans Doing

Delving into the Doing Mode of Mind

Embracing the Being Mode of Mind

Combining Being and Doing

Overcoming Obsessive Doing: Distinguishing Wants from Needs

Being in the Zone: The Psychology of Flow

Understanding the factors of mindful flow

Discovering your flow experiences

Encouraging a Being Mode of Mind

Dealing with emotions using being mode

Finding time to just be

Living in the moment

Part III: Practising Mindfulness

Chapter 6: Getting Into Formal Mindfulness Meditation Practice

Preparing Your Body and Mind for Mindfulness Meditation

Savouring Mindful Eating Meditation

Relaxing with Mindful Breathing Meditation

Engaging in Mindful Movement

Trying Out the Body Scan Meditation

Practising the body scan

Appreciating the benefits of the body scan meditation

Overcoming body scan obstacles

Enjoying Sitting Meditation

Finding a posture that’s right for you

Practising sitting meditation

Overcoming sitting meditation obstacles

Stepping Out with Walking Meditations

Examining your walking habits

Practising formal walking meditation

Trying alternative walking meditations

Overcoming walking meditation obstacles

Generating Compassion: Metta Meditations

Practising loving kindness meditation

Overcoming metta meditation obstacles

Chapter 7: Using Mindfulness for Yourself and Others

Using a Mini Mindful Exercise

Introducing the breathing space

Practising the breathing space

Using the breathing space between activities

Using Mindfulness to Look After Yourself

Exercising mindfully

Preparing for sleep with mindfulness

Looking at a mindful work–life balance

Using Mindfulness in Relationships

Starting with your relationship with yourself

Dealing with arguments in romantic relationships: A mindful way to greater peace

Engaging in deep listening

Being aware of expectations

Looking into the mirror of relationships

Working with your emotions

Seeing difficult people as your teachers

Chapter 8: Using Mindfulness in Your Daily Life

Using Mindfulness at Work

Beginning the day mindfully

Dropping in with mini meditations

Going from reacting to responding

Solving problems creatively

Practising mindful working

Trying single-tasking: Discovering the multi-tasking myth

Finishing by letting go

Using Mindfulness on the Move

Walking mindfully

Driving mindfully

Travelling mindfully on public transport

Using Mindfulness in the Home

Waking up mindfully

Doing everyday tasks with awareness

Second hunger: Overcoming problem eating

Living Mindfully in the Digital Age

Assessing your level of addiction to technology

Using mindfulness to get back in control

Using technology to enhance mindful awareness

Chapter 9: Establishing Your Own Mindfulness Routine

Trying the Evidence-Based Mindfulness Course

Week One: Understanding automatic pilot

Week Two: Dealing with barriers

Week Three: Being mindful in movement

Week Four: Staying present

Week Five: Embracing acceptance

Week Six: Realising that thoughts are just thoughts

Week Seven: Taking care of yourself

Week Eight: Reflection and change

Choosing What to Practise for Quick Stress Reduction

Going Even Deeper

Discovering the value of silence

Setting aside a day for mindfulness

Joining a group

Finding an appropriate retreat

Chapter 10: Dealing with Setbacks and Transcending Distractions

Getting the Most out of Meditation

Making time

Rising above boredom and restlessness

Staying awake during mindful meditation

Finding a focus

Re-charging enthusiasm

Dealing with Common Distractions

Handling unusual experiences

Learning to relax

Developing patience

Learning from Negative Experiences

Dealing with physical discomfort

Getting over difficult emotions

Accepting your progress

Going beyond unhelpful thoughts

Finding a Personal Path

Approaching difficulties with kindness

Understanding why you’re bothering

Realising that setbacks are inevitable

Setting realistic expectations

Looking at change

Part IV: Reaping the Rewards of Mindfulness

Chapter 11: Discovering Greater Happiness

Discovering the Way to Happiness

Exploring your ideas about happiness

Challenging assumptions about happiness

Applying Mindfulness with Positive Psychology

Understanding the three ways to happiness

Using your personal strengths mindfully

Writing a gratitude journal

Savouring the moment

Helping others mindfully

Generating Positive Emotions with Mindfulness

Breathing and smiling

Mindful laughter

Releasing Your Creativity

Exploring creativity

Creating conditions for originality

Chapter 12: Reducing Stress, Anger and Fatigue

Using Mindfulness to Reduce Stress

Understanding your stress

Noticing the early signs of stress

Assessing your stress

Moving from reacting to responding to stress

Breathing out your stress

Using your mind to manage stress

Cooling Down Your Anger

Understanding anger

Coping when the fire rises up

Reducing Fatigue

Assessing your energy levels

Discovering energy drainers

Finding what uplifts you

Using meditations to rise and sparkle

Chapter 13: Using Mindfulness to Combat Anxiety, Depression and Addiction

Dealing Mindfully with Depression

Understanding depression

Understanding why depression recurs

Using mindfulness to change your relationship to low mood

Discovering Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)

Pleasant and Unpleasant Experiences

Interpreting thoughts and feelings

Combating automatic thoughts

Alternative viewpoints

De-centring from difficult thoughts

Listing your activities

Making wise choices

Using a depression warning system

Calming Anxiety: Let It Be

Feel the fear . . . and make friends with it

Using mindfulness to cope with anxiety

Being with anxious feelings

Overcoming Addiction

Understanding a mindful approach to addiction

Discovering urge surfing: The mindful key to unlocking addiction

Managing relapse: Discovering the surprising secret for success

Chapter 14: Getting Physical: Healing the Body

Contemplating Wholeness: Healing from Within

Seeing the Connection between Mind and Body

Acknowledging Your Limits

Rising above Your Illness

Using Mindfulness to Manage Pain

Knowing the difference between pain and suffering

Coping with pain

Using Mindfulness during Ill Health

Aiding the healing process

Chapter 15: Coaching Children in Mindfulness

Children and Mindfulness: A Natural Combination

Teaching Mindfulness to Children

Setting an example

Taking baby steps

Playing Mindfulness Games and Exercises

Memory game

Teddy bear

Paper windmill spinning

Curious mind

Loving kindness meditation

Bubble meditation

Mindful drawing

Mindful body scan

Supporting Teens with Mindfulness

Introducing mindfulness to teens

Helping teens with exam stress

Mindful Parenting

Being present for your children

Trying out tips for mindful parenting

Part V: The Part of Tens

Chapter 16: Ten Top Tips for Mindful Living

Spending Some Quiet Time Every Day

Connect with People

Enjoy the Beauty of Nature

Change Your Daily Routine

See the Wonder of the Present Moment

Listen to Unpleasant Emotions

Remember That Thoughts Aren’t Facts

Be Grateful Every Day

Use Technology Mindfully

Breathe and Smile!

Chapter 17: Ten Ways Mindfulness Can Really Help You

Training the Brain

Improving Relationships

Boosting Creativity

Reducing Depression

Reducing Chronic Pain

Giving Deeper Meaning to Life

Reducing Stress and Anxiety

Controlling Addiction

Regulating Eating Habits

Increasing Your Happiness

Chapter 18: Ten Mindfulness Myths to Expose

Mindfulness Is All about the Mind

Mindfulness Isn’t for Restless People

Mindfulness Is Positive Thinking

Mindfulness Is Only for Buddhists

Mindfulness Is Only for Tough Times

Mindfulness Is a Set of Techniques

Mindfulness Isn’t for Me

Mindfulness Meditation Is Relaxation

Mindfulness Can Be Used Instead of Therapy or Medicine

Mindfulness Is Complicated and Boring

Chapter 19: Ten Paths to Further Study

Websites

ShamashAlidina.com

Greater Good Science Centre

Mindful.org

Books, Magazines and Films

Book: Wherever you go, there you are

Book: Peace Is Every Step

Book: Mindfulness – a practical guide to finding peace in a frantic world

Magazine: Mindful

DVD: Room to Breathe

Retreats

Mindfulness-based retreat centres worldwide

Plum Village and related centers

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