Description
Trauma and addiction are two of the most common and difficult issues that people face--but it truly is possible to heal. In this motivating book, leading expert Lisa Najavits explains the link between trauma and addiction and presents science-based self-help strategies that you can use no matter where you are in your recovery. Every chapter features inspiring words from people who have "been there," plus carefully designed reflection questions, exercises, and other practical tools. Learn how you can:
*Build coping skills so that the future is better than the past.
*Keep yourself safe and find support.
*Set your own goals and make a plan to achieve them at your own pace.
*Choose compassion over self-blame and shame.
*Move toward your best self--the person you want to be.
Mental health professionals, see also the author's Seeking Safety: A Treatment Manual for PTSD and Substance Abuse, which presents an evidence-based treatment approach developed specifically for PTSD and substance abuse.
Chapter
1. Moving Forward from Trauma, Addiction, or Both
3. "Things Turn Out Okay" – David's Experience
4. It's Medical – You're Not Crazy, Lazy, or Bad
6. The World is Your School
7. Listen to Your Behavior
11. The Language of Trauma and Addiction
15. Why Trauma and Addiction Go Together
18. Getting to a Calm Place: The Skill of Grounding
19. The Culture of Silence
20. Motivation: Leverage One Problem to Help Another
21. Tip the Scales Recovery Plan
22. Every Child is a Detective
23. How to Survive a Relapse
26. Identity: How You View Yourself
27. Perception: How Others View You
29. Dark Feelings: Rage, Hatred, Revenge, Bitterness
31. Create a Healing Image
32. Find a Good Counselor
33. Two Types of Trauma Counseling
34. What the Wounded Can Give Back
35. "We Are All in the Gutter, but Some of Us are Looking at the Stars"
APPENDIX A. How Others Can Help – Family, Friends, Partners, Sponsors, Counselors
APPENDIX C. Excessive Behavior Scale
APPENDIX D. Brief Quiz on Trauma and Addiction: Knowledge is Power